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Terry Crews fasted from sex WITH HIS WIFE. For 90 days!?

I call ALL the BS on this one, but let me give y’all the details first. According to Rolling Out, Terry Crews and his wife of over 25 years fasted from sex for 90 days. Apparently this left him feeling more in love with her.

In a new interview with “HuffPost Live,” Crews spoke about his marriage to Rebecca King-Crews and explained that their “90-day sex fast” left him “more in love” and “more turned on” than he’d ever been in his marriage.

“90 days — no sex, all relationship, all talk, all cuddle,” he explained. “I found that at the end of that 90 days … I knew who she was, and it wasn’t about ‘Let’s go out because I know I’m gonna get some sex later.’ It was like, ‘Let’s go because I want to talk to you. I want to know you.’”

So here I am again, calling BS.

Sex is THE most intimate of acts between a married couple. Abstaining from sex in order to become closer makes ZERO sense at all. Now, if one or both partners is feeling as if the sex has lost intimacy, then there are ways to address this.

I once saw a “30 Days of Intimacy” calendar. Do something like that. Or have a “phone/technology free weekend.” Go on dates. But abstaining from sex? WITHIN your marriage? For NINETY DAYS!?


And let me say this. If my husband were to come to me with this idea, my mind is going to ONE place. You have gone out and slept with someone and you’re wanting to make sure you won’t give me anything. That’s gotta be it. These other reasons simply don’t make sense.

He said that instead of taking his wife out because he knew he was getting sex later, he was taking her out to actually talk to her. “I want to know you.”


What kind of mentality is that for a grown ahh man in a 25+ year marriage? Taking her out with the end goal of sex? That sounds like some of these new men out here who lie about their intentions to women just to get in her pants. What is this?

Yeahhhhhh no.


Further, this is showing the HUGE misunderstanding about “fasting.” The point of fasting is to deny yourself to become closer to God. Sex is an act that is ABSOLUTELY biblically endorsed between a man and his wife.

Again, if there’s something missing within the act of sex, then that should absolutely be addressed by incorporating some time for dates, foreplay, intimacy, etc. But FASTING!?


Anyway, y’all see how I feel. What say you?

Rules for listening to Adele’s new single (and album).

Adele released new music this morning and…..

Well…here. But be careful. Here’s a little warning…

You’ve been warned.

First of all, EVERYTHING about this is perfect.

The song is PERFECT.

The video is PERFECT.

Her voice is PERFECT.

And she is absolutely beautiful.

Next, ADELE???? WYD!?

Like, are you trying to kill us?

And guys, look at the track list for her album (November 20th):

Media preview

Definitely trying to kill us.

A few rules to help get you through this time.

  1. DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT listen to ANY of this if you aren’t over your ex. Just don’t do it!
  2. DO NOT listen to this between the hours of 6pm and 10am (that’s gonna be my method, at least).
  3. DO NOT drink while listening to this. Especially wine. Don’t drink wine while listening to this.
  4. Go ahead and delete your ex’s number(s).
  5. Unfollow you ex on all social media accounts. Right now. Do it. Right now.
  6. Maybe you SHOULD drink while listening.
  7. – 10. Have someone on standby to call and check on you periodically from November 20th – 27th. This is UBER important.

Tracks 1 – 3. I just….I can’t.

And y’all said that she wouldn’t be able to serve cause she’s in a happy relationship now and has a baby.


She showed y’all.



Scandal: “Paris is Burning” & “Dog-Whistle Politics” (I’m all caught up!)

This review is for last week’s episode, “Dog-Whistle Politics.”

  1. The show has been on for 5 minutes and I feel exhausted because they are TALKING TOO FAST! OMG. WHYYYYY do they have to still do this?
  2. “Do I want to be a gladiator in a suit? Hell naw.” – WELP. Quinn just got read real quick, huh?
  3. Is it me, are are you over the President of the United States constantly having to be reminded that…he’s the President of the United States (by his mistress?)?
  4. “They want to impeach a man for having an affair?” – Cyrus wasn’t ready for the answer to this. LOL
  5. “He distracted the country with his libido and the only person who gets raked over the coals is the woman he screwed. That’s why.” – Mellie. WHEW. Welp.
  6. Fitz playing hide and seek with Teddy made me smile…. Awww shyt. Mellie got that, “Can we work it out” look in her eyes. Girlllll. I need her to NOT let this man tell her he doesn’t want her not one more time.
  7. Ahhhhhh. So this is how they are going to replace Columbus Short. Hmmm. I like Marcus Walker.
  8. Hold up. This man told the POTUS TO. HIS. FACE. to choose a woman more “palatable” to the party the next time he decides to step outside of his marriage!? And he DIDN’T get popped in the mouth!?!?!?!? BIIIIIIIIIIISH. No. Fitz gotta grant this man the fade (via his security team, of course).
  9. Ahhh. Shonda is touching on internet/social media harassment, here.
  10. Liv needs to go see a therapist. For this and for SO MUCH MORE.
  11. Here goes Jake putting on his cape and saving _____. *rolls eyes* What’s her name. Elise? Ugh. Here we go. “Come back with me.”
  12. Cyrus is talking about what Fitz did to “us.” Mellie knew what this was when she let Cyrus be on her team. Cyrus is a bitter bish whose ONLY angle is to get back at the President.
  13. WHOA! Cyrus told Mellie that she never loved Fitz. OH WOW.  He brought up her dead kid. Waiiiiiiiiiiiit…Cyrus referenced Fitz as his child….BUT WHERE IS HIS CHILD!? Doesn’t he have a black baby somewhere? We’re just gonna ignore that!? WHERE IS THE BLACK BABY!?
  14. HA HA HA! Fitz took the presidential motorcade to Liv’s house!!!!! *Signed, Sealed, Delivered I’m Yours” – Stevie Wonder playing in the background. *snaps fingers*
  15. “I’m taking my girlfriend on a date.” – Fitz. UGHHHHH I hate that this made me all giggly. RATS.  And LOOK at Mellie not being able to take it. What’s wrong with her? LOL. This was happening. In fact, didn’t Mellie bring Olivia back into Fitz’ life after she left (like 2 seasons ago, I think)?

Okay. So briefly about the previous episode, “Paris Is Burning” (10/8)….

My favorite parts:

  2. When Cyrus tried to get his job back and Fitz was like NOPE! “You. do not. work here. anymore.” And he said it with a sigh! HA!!! Fitz wouldn’t even look at him during his little “please take me back” speech!!! Then, “You can go.”  
  3. BYE, CYRUS!

The part I hated:

  1. Mellie’s hair.

The end.

Meek Mill is on social media in his feelings again (v. Wale).

Wale went on The Breakfast Club for an interview and was very candid about a few things..

Following an interview this morning where Wale basically said MMG is basically no more and the Meek Mill brought “a pencil to a gun fight” verses Drake, Meek Mill went on a vicious rant against the D.C. rapper.


Well. Meek Mill wasn’t very appreciative of his comments. Maybe the “a pencil to a gun fight” statement is what did it? *giggles* Well, here’s his response via social media cause who is really doing interviews with him these days anyway?

Hmmmm. So Meek Mill took down the Instagram post. Maybe it has something to do with Rick Ross and the REAL boss (check out the update below)? But you know I got the screenshot… 

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But wait, “This my last time I think addressing shit on the internet”



And what kinda calls you think you’re making, breh? WHO IS LISTENING TO YOU, FAM? WHERE IS YOUR BOSS!?!?!?!? Has someone informed him that…that’s not his role? The he can’t make those kinds of calls? LOL. He’s hollering and making threats that he can’t back up (again)!

Somebody help him.

But watch this. Meek Mill also posted this…


And look what Wale did…


And in conclusion….

Meek Mill.

Have a seat, Bruh. I mean, what is it? Has Nicki not rented out her PR team to him? Can she not help? He clearly hasn’t learned.

Meanwhile, Drake is like…



UPDATED: October 22, 2015, 8:10am

Let’s take a look at Rick Ross’ Instagram account, shall we?

Tonight @wale tore down as @djkhaled would say “Another One” !!! Never question THE EMPIRE🔥 #MMG

A video posted by Ricky Rozay (@richforever) on

So after Meek Mill posted that he’s making some kind of a call about Wale being in MMG…Rick Ross posted this.



Now. What kind of call was that you’re making, Meeks?

Let’s all gather in prayer for Elgin Baylor Lumpkin.

And if you don’t know who that is then you’re just too young for me.

Anyway, he posted this on Facebook (the original post was deleted but here’s a screenshot)...




And I’m just like….

Ginuwine, WYD?

Crazy thing is that he also just posted this…




Well that first picture may help us further understand this performance…


Let us all gather for prayer.


UPDATED: 1:15pm

One of my readers KEEPS me on the up and up!

Here’s a response from Ginuwine!


That’s that!

(I still need an explanation on that performance, though!)