Memphitz goes off on Toya, People ask if Lil Wayne should get involved

In case you forgot, K. Michelle told us that Memphitz (Mickey Wright) was a violent abuser:

I wasn’t just sitting there innocent, but I didn’t hit him first. I did not. I didn’t do anything. He blacked out. It wasn’t just a restraining. I was smothered with a towel. He hit me in the head with a water bottle. It wasn’t nothing small. I was bruised up and bleeding.  What shocked me the most was the smothering. I was crawling and climbing to get away. Once I got away he was doing it again. He yanked me. I had carpet burns. I looked in his face and it did not look like him. I was screaming, “It’s me”. After that I left.

Of course, Toya and Memphitz both denied the allegations.

But then in a deposition for a defamation case that Memphitz LOST against K. Michelle he admitted to it:

In depositions, he admitted to a physical confrontation with K. Michelle in a Memphis hotel in 2009 and acknowledged that he spent money from Jive Record’s budget for jewelry. He also sent text messages threatening to murder K. Michelle’s son.


Anyway, Toya and Memphitz are on the reality tv show Marriage Bootcamp. Annnnd he kinda lost his shyt a lil bit.

Check it out from the 2:00 – 2:30 mark and again at 3:35 – 3:50 (ummm this is also where Brittish Williams loses HER shyt if you keep watching. Goodness.):




Imma ignore the obvious here (Toya should leave him – although I thought that already happened so I’m actually kinda confused), and jump right into a question that was posed on The Breakfast Club this morning.

Toya is Lil Wayne’s ex-wife and they have a daughter together, Reginae Carter. The question was, since we now SEE how problematic Memphitz’ behavior is, should Lil Wayne intervene? That’s his first love, and the mother of his child. Shouldn’t he step in?

Here’s MY answer:


Look. It is not Lil Wayne’s job to comment on, or step into, Toya’s marriage. Now, what he SHOULD do is intervene on behalf of his daughter. If I’m not mistaken (and what was said on Breakfast Club this morning), Reginae is still in the house with Memphitz. This is a TERRIBLE environment for her to be in. Yes, she is 17 now, but if she is still around Memphitz, Lil Wayne has the right to intervene there.

But to put the responsibility on him to get between Toya and Memphitz’ marriage?

Well, first of all, none of us even know if this is something that has already happened. Maybe he has spoken with Toya and/or Memphitz about it.  Which is even MORE problematic because IF that’s happened and he STILL went off like this on NATIONAL TV…ummmm….

To be honest, I gave a definitive answer before about Lil Wayne getting involved, but as I continue to type, I think I’m changing my own mind. While Toya has the resources to leave Memphitz, she is still, in MY opinion, in an abusive relationship and HASN’T left (I don’t think…again, I’m confused). Anybody who CAN intervene absolutely should, right?



Also, since then, Memphiz has posted this:

i will never Love like this again.

A photo posted by Mickey Wright "Bumaye" (@therealmemphitz) on

Hm. If THAT’S love…



What do you guys think?

Should Lil Wayne get in the middle of it or just keep it strictly focused on Reginae?


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