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I Want Revenge…So Imma Leak Your Nudes.

Good.  The headline got you to click on the link! 🙂

So the discussion this morning on The Breakfast Club was on revenge porn.  This is what happens when women send out nudes or make videos having sex with their man, but then it gets leaked by said man when things go wrong.

Now.  I said men do it because I have never seen a woman “leak” a nude online.  I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, but I’m sure the humiliation and embarrassment isn’t the same as when it happens to women.

So okay.  They asked for people to call in and tell their story.  One woman called in and said that if a man still has the nudes/videos to leave in the first place then that means he misses her and really wants that old thing back.  Charlamagne responded to her in the EXACT way that I would have.  He told her that was a bunch of bullshyt.  He told her to not EVER pump herself up to believe that.  And I agree.  Women, stop thinking that EVERYTHING a man does that pertains to you means he wants you back.  ONLY believe that when HE tells you he wants you back. SMH.

Anyway, so this next woman calls in and says that yes, it has happened to her….three times.

WUT? Three times (The Breakfast Club had the same reaction)?

And then this woman tried to explain it away! “The first time was with the father of my son, and then it turned out he was a jerk. And the next two men were my boyfriends.  And I was with them and I trusted them!!! We were together!”  Y’all.  When she got done, Charlamagne called her a hoe. LMAO.

I mean COME ON.  WOMEN! STOP IT!  STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT!  WHYYYYYYY are y’all out here sending nudes (with your FACE in the picture!?!?) and making sex videos with BOYFRIENDS!?  Yeah, you didn’t know he would stoop that low….until he does.  At LEAST be smart about it!

Yeah I know ALL men don’t do this….but guess what?  The women who have been humiliated by the men who HAVE done it didn’t think “their” man would do it either.  Men can act out too. Wouldn’t you rather be safe than sorry?  You trusted one of your random boyfriends and now your legs are up in the air all over the internet.  “But baby please send me one…I miss you.” Um, then sir that means we need to make some kind of a plan to where you get to see with your own two eyes.  Cause NOPE.

You KNOW there is an epidemic of f*** boys out here.  And you KNOW some of them are able to hide their f*** boy ways.  So why take the chance?  Boyfriends are temporary…unless it leads to more.  I mean, if you’re cool with your privates possibly being exposed on the entire world wide web then okay, cool.

But if not, then….


If Michael Dunn Doesn’t Get Convicted I’m Done With America.

If you aren’t aware of this story, let me break it down for you.  White man is IN HIS CAR. Black teens are IN THEIR CAR.  White man doesn’t like the music black teens are playing because it’s too loud.  Man asks teens to turn it down.  Teens curse him out and turn the music back UP. White man…STILL IN HIS CAR says he saw the “barrel” of a gun on the dashboard of the black teens car, and then shoots at black teens’ car. Four rounds.  Black teens drive off, white man shoots off ANOTHER four rounds.  One black teen is killed.  White man says it was self defense.  That he feared for his life. Trial starts today.

If you don’t believe me, here is the official story from CNN.

It was the day after Thanksgiving 2012, and Michael Dunn had just left his son’s wedding. He’d had two drinks but wasn’t buzzed, and he and his girlfriend were in a “great mood” — headed to a nice bed and breakfast in St. Augustine, Florida, where they planned to enjoy a bottle of wine, he told police.

A stop at a Jacksonville gas station would flip the happy day on its head. His car doors and windows shut, he was annoyed by the “heavy bass” coming from a nearby SUV and asked four teens to turn it down.

He heard what might have been a threat, Dunn told police, then saw what might have been a gun. He pulled a 9mm handgun from his glove compartment and fired four times. Then four more times. He picked up his girlfriend as she came out of the convenience store and fled the scene, not realizing one of his eight bullets had killed 17-year-old Jordan Davis, Dunn told police interrogators.

The couple continued on to St. Augustine, where they checked into their room and ordered pizza but didn’t call police, Dunn said.

This bastard shot at a vehicle eight times and then went to a bed and breakfast with his girlfriend and ordered a pizza. Didn’t call police, didn’t check to see if anyone was harmed, nothing.

“I was polite. I asked them nicely. … I said, ‘Hey, would you guys mind turning that down?’ They shut it off, and I was like, ‘Thank you,’ ” Dunn tells police.

One of the passengers became “agitated,” Dunn further explains, and someone turned the music back up. Dunn says he wasn’t sure if the teens were singing, but he heard someone say, “Kill him,” so he rolled down his window and asked if they were talking about him.

“It was like, um, ‘Kill that bitch,’ ” Dunn says, claiming that he saw one of the Durango’s occupants produce what looked like a shotgun and open the vehicle’s door.

Asked later if he was certain he saw a gun, he replies, “I saw a barrel come up on the window, like a single-shot shotgun … It was either a barrel or a stick.”

“I’m sh***ing bricks, but that’s when I reached in my glove box, unholstered my pistol … and so quicker than a flash I had a round chambered in it, and I shot,” he says, adding that he has owned the 9mm handgun since 1990 and “always” keeps it fully loaded in his glove compartment.

He initially fired his weapon four times, Dunn tells police, and the Durango began to pull away.

“I was still scared and so I shot four more times … trying to keep their heads down to not catch any return fire. And that was it,” he says.

I don’t GAF if you don’t like the music people are playing, you either sit there and deal or you drive off to another gas station.  Who does this man think he is?  Oh.  I know EXACTLY who he thinks he is.  He thinks he’s the authority on what people do and do not have the right to do in public.

The couple had plans at a “fairly expensive” bed and breakfast in St. Augustine, 40 miles south of Jacksonville, so they drove there and ordered pizza. Dunn didn’t call police, he says, because he wanted to go back to his South Patrick Shores home, another 130 miles south of St. Augustine.

Dunn “was waiting till we get around people we know” to call authorities, and he wanted to ensure “our dog and everybody were where they needed to be. I did not want to bring a s**tstorm down on them in Jacksonville,” he tells interrogators.

In hindsight, he says, he shouldn’t have left the scene, but he was too afraid to stay.

“I went over this a million times, and what I should’ve done is put the car in reverse” to escape the confrontation, he says, but “it was fight or flight. I don’t think there was any time for flight at that moment. I was going to get shot.”

One of the police interrogators tells Dunn, “I will be the first to tell you that there are no weapons in that car. I don’t know what you saw.”

“Is it possible when they drove off they dumped it?” Dunn asks.

“They never left the parking lot,” the officer replies. “They drove off, circled right back around and came right back to that spot.”

I can’t believe this. And to make it worse, on CNN’s New Day this morning Chris Cuomo opened this story by saying, “compared to this case, the Zimmerman verdict is a no brainer.”  That may or may not be what he said verbatim but it is really really close.  WHAT!?

Black America is aware that there are some people who can’t stand us. Like, in general. But the whole Zimmerman case REALLY brought to light how worthless the life of a black man is in the eyes of the law.  And the only reason a lot of us (both black AND white) got hit with a ton of bricks when that verdict came was because that case JUST SO HAPPENED to make national news.  This happens everyday. The life of a black man holds little value.

It’s sickening, sad, and heartbreaking.

Opening statements are expected to begin Thursday in Dunn’s trial. He has pleaded not guilty to first-degree murder in Davis’ death and to three counts of attempted first-degree murder for shooting at three teens accompanying Davis. Dunn has told police fear for his safety drove his actions that day.

If he doesn’t end up in a jail cell for life I am DONE. But.  State Attorney Angela Corey is the prosecutor.  I won’t get my hopes up too high.

Blogger says being a wife and mother isn’t cause for celebration

^^ My reaction to this.

Read this from Thought Catalog, “I Look Down On Young Women With Husbands And Kids And I’m Not Sorry”

Every time I hear someone say that feminism is about validating every choice a woman makes I have to fight back vomit.

Do people really think that a stay at home mom is really on equal footing with a woman who works and takes care of herself? There’s no way those two things are the same. It’s hard for me to believe it’s not just verbally placating these people so they don’t get in trouble with the mommy bloggers.

Having kids and getting married are considered life milestones. We have baby showers and wedding parties as if it’s a huge accomplishment and cause for celebration to be able to get knocked up or find someone to walk down the aisle with. These aren’t accomplishments, they are actually super easy tasks, literally anyone can do them. They are the most common thing, ever, in the history of the world. They are, by definition, average. And here’s the thing, why on earth are we settling for average?

If women can do anything, why are we still content with applauding them for doing nothing?

I want to have a shower for a woman when she backpacks on her own through Asia, gets a promotion, or lands a dream job not when she stays inside the box and does the house and kids thing which is the path of least resistance. The dominate cultural voice will tell you these are things you can do with a husband and kids, but as I’ve written before, that’s a lie. It’s just not reality.

You will never have the time, energy, freedom or mobility to be exceptional if you have a husband and kids.

I hear women talk about how “hard” it is to raise kids and manage a household all the time. I never hear men talk about this. It’s because women secretly like to talk about how hard managing a household is so they don’t have to explain their lack of real accomplishments. Men don’t care to “manage a household.” They aren’t conditioned to think stupid things like that are “important.”

Women will be equal with men when we stop demanding that it be considered equally important to do housework and real work. They are not equal. Doing laundry will never be as important as being a doctor or an engineer or building a business. This word play is holding us back.


I guess I can start with saying BYE, SIS.  Cause all of this is a bunch of bull. ALL. OF. IT.

The next thing I would like to say is to GROW. UP.

Listen.  I have NO desire, and I mean ZERO, to backpack through ANYWHERE.  Not a single step. NOPE. And if I would’ve gone to school to be a doctor, engineer, or whatever else *she* thinks is “important,” then I would be in a very bad place in life right now because I would’ve failed out, damaged my self-esteem, self-concept, motivation, alladat.

WHO DOES THIS BROAD THINK SHE IS!?  How are you going to impose what *YOU* think is important on ALL women?  Looking down on women who have husbands and kids? Guess what? That is YOUR choice.  Congratulations.  But I suggest this person uses a bit more logic to form their opinions because this is an extremely limited point of view.

From the time of conception, a woman is literally growing a human being inside of her.  And while all women don’t want to have children (and that is perfectly fine!), to basically say that it’s *average* or not important is gross.  Literally “anybody” can do these things? Tell that to the woman who desires to have children and can’t. Applauding women for doing “nothing?”  So because MY idea of purpose (wife/mother) isn’t the same as yours, you want to stop celebrating the birth of a child and weddings!?

This woman NEEDS this shirt in her life.  Probably should buy out the entire supply cause she needs one for everyday.  And since doing laundry isn’t important she’s gonna need a lot of them.

I’m done.  But before I end, I would like to invite you all who are reading this to send me a congratulatory message for not cussing throughout this post.  That’s a huge step for me.  Thanks in advance.

Justin Bieber Has Lost His Damn Mind


Look at this picture Justin Bieber posted on Instagram.

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The caption says, “What more can they say.”


No sir.


Exactly who does this little piece of sh*t think he is!? Comparing himself to MICHAEL JACKSON!????? And he chooses to use the picture where he’s leaving jail because HE WAS HIGH ON DRUGS, DRUNK, AND DRAG RACING!?!?!

BYE Justin.

This shows me that he has not learned a damn thing.  Mark my words.  This WILL get worse before it gets better. SMH


Will The Gays Be Coming For Ashanti?

Ashanti has had an … interesting career.  She tried to make a comeback last year (I think?), buuuut it doesn’t seem to have worked out so well.  I actually liked her song though! I thought it showed that she does have some vocal ability.  ANYWAY.  So this happened on Twitter.

The original tweet.  Innocent enough, right?

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Buuuuuut then this happened….

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Annnnnnd then this.

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Ashanti. Girl.

Now, what I will say is when you come for these celebrities be prepared for them to clap back.  HOWEVER, I’m not sure what kind of response this was from Ashanti.  Like, what does one have to do with the other?  What does your single, which flopped indeed, have to do with one being in the closet? I don’t get it?  And I’m actually surprised the tweet hasn’t been erased.  At least she stands behind what she says or whatever.  She got some responses according to The Huffington Post:

“I am gay. I AM offended Being in the closet is not fun Or hilarious. People struggle with this #GayIsNotAJoke,” one user responded. “[W]ow girl I never knew you [were] this classless smh,” wrote another.

A representative for Ashanti could not be immediately reached for comment.

SMH.  Anyway, here’s the single if you never heard it.  And if you care.