This guy here? He was doing THEEEEE most. I mean WOW.
So last month the (former!) pastor of Shiloh Missionary Baptist Church (Montgomery, Alabama), Juan Demetrius McFarland, announced to his church that he has full blown AIDS, and has known since 2008.
But that’s not all:
“The church was very accepting of Reverend McFarland and was willing to help him in any way possible,” a church member, who wanted to remain unnamed, explained.
Once the pastor, with 23 years of leadership, started revealing more and more on the following Sundays, members and leaders say they realized he had crossed the line.
In a resolution read aloud at the church, leaders shared, and Pastor McFarland confirmed to WSFA 12 News, that he admitted to drug use and mishandling of church funds. And there was what members say was the ultimate shocker, described by church deacon Nathan Williams Jr.
“He concealed from the church that he had knowingly engaged in adultery in the church building with female members of Shiloh Missionary Baptist Church while knowingly having AIDS,” Williams said.
McFarland was removed as church pastor on Oct. 5. Still, church members say some congregation members are afraid to come forward and many others are concerned.
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So. Let me get this straight, sir.
You have AIDS, abusing drugs, have misused church funds, and have been sleeping with women members INSIDE. OF. THE. CHURCH. BUILDING!?!?!
Does that about cover it all?
BRUH.
“Who does this to people, and you are the leader? Who does this?” another unnamed church member asked.
“I know a young lady who is a member of the church who says she has slept with him and that she didn’t want this to go public, and she running out now trying to find out if there is anything wrong with her,” the member explained. “And my heart goes out to her because she’s been a wonderful church member, and then for something like this to happen. The fact that he didn’t tell them at all. That’s a crime in itself.”
The unnamed church member went on, “And I’m hoping by doing this interview that she will see that she can come and talk to someone and her name or whatever will not be revealed. And maybe she can have some peace by coming forward and not the shame that goes along with it.”
Deacon Williams says he’s been a member of the church for 70 years, and this is the biggest scandal the church has ever experienced.
“He confessed to the entire membership and then to the City of Montgomery, because as soon as he got done confessing, it went all over Montgomery anyway,” Williams said. “So it’s nothing we [are] making up. It’s coming out of his mouth.”
Um. If I was that woman I wouldn’t say a word either! This speaker is delusional if she thinks that woman isn’t going to be met with any kind of shaming. Nah…she needs to take some time and get herself together first cause there’s sure to be some judgment from a church mutha or two. After that, then if she chooses to disclose, okay. Right now I’d think she would want to take care of what she needs to take care of though.
I commend the church leaders for handling this in a classy way. This is a major blow to them and they are trying to move forward with (seemingly) as little drama as possible.
Just want to make a quick note here:
I know this will be seen as an opportunity for those to say, “See? The church isn’t perfect!” Let me help you out with that. NOPE. It isn’t. I have seen some behavior displayed by people within the church that I’ve never seen outside of it. But. Neither the pastor nor the members are my reason for going. I’m not saying people shouldn’t be held accountable. They ABSOLUTELY MUST be. But I AM saying that church members, clergy, deacons, etc. all have one thing in common. We’re human. We’re sinners. We ARE going to mess up. This is why it’s important to be firm in why you’re attending in the first place and to not let human behavior shake the REAL reason for worship.
*steps off soapbox*
That’s all I’ve got on this one. Whew.